Monday, April 8, 2013

General Conference with a Toddler

One of the amazing things about my new life is that I am a part-time mom. It's kind of a daunting task to take on so suddenly - motherhood. In so many ways it really isn't "so suddenly" seeing as how I knew it was coming for such a long time and my role in Lindy's life isn't changing just because Allan and I got married. We're still doing things the same way...but still. To officially be a step-mom (although I hate the word step, so maybe a second mom? I don't know....) is kind of odd to think about.

Anyways. Due to drill scheduling and what not Allan had switched weekends to have Lindy over general conference. Our first non-honeymoon together....with Lindy! (hey, got to get the "normal" thing going asap right?) Knowing that this was happening I tried to be all awesome and put together something to keep Lindy entertained during General Conference. 8 hours of sitting and being told to stay quiet is REALLY hard for a toddler. Heck, trying to do that for 2 hours when what you're watching isn't Tinkerbell is hard to do at that age. ;)

So, I turned to Pinterest. I found SO MANY THINGS and started to feel a little overwhelmed at all the awesomeness out there that moms have put together. I didn't use any ONE source for what I did, but I did find just about everything that I did from this post.

So what did I do, you ask? Well, I got a bag for each member of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles and the First Presidency. I wrote their name on the outside of the bag and then put a different activity in each bag. Here's an idea of what was inside the various bags:

  • 4 bags had 3-4 coloring pages from the Friend magazine.
  • bubbles (we got special princess bubbles from walmart - they were a dollar or two I think)
  • Princess coloring pages (this was a white elephant gift from several years ago, I had been saving it for the perfect time for Lindy.)
  • Rip paper and glue to cardstock 
  • Brown paper bags + craft supplies to make puppets
  • Homemade sewing cards (took 5x7 pictures of a temple/First Presidency from the Distribution Center and used a hole punch to punch around the picture, used ribbon tied to one hole for a starter.)
  • Play dough
  • Apostle/First Presidency Matching game
  • Vertical Drawing (taped a poster board to the wall and let her color on it.)
  • Play a game on Daddy's phone (one of her church iPhone games)
  • Faces game
I know there was one more, but I can't think of it. We got a little lucky in that during the Saturday morning session Lindy was playing w/her cousins while Allan and I got our washer and dryer picked up/installed in our house. :o) 

Notes: the coloring pages didn't go over super well (ESPECIALLY after some of the more "fun" activities). The ripping of paper and gluing it? PERFECT. That was one that kept Lindy entertained for an hour at least. Also a big hit? The sewing cards. Those are totally going in her Sunday quiet bag. We didn't pull out the bag to make puppets - the apostle this went with (Elder D. Todd Christofferson) went very last on Sunday afternoon and I knew it would be an hour or so project and I didn't want to start it at that time. So...we skipped that bag. Bubbles were another big hit and were used after the Sunday morning session to entertain for a while with Daddy outside. :)

Overall, it was fun times. Lindy loved getting a new "surprise" every so often. Some lasted longer than others - some got played more than once (the faces game for example). Also, I didn't stress on changing to a new bag each time a new apostle spoke. (i.e. the back to back Apostles like Holland to Oaks.) If she was entertained she got to keep going. If she was done and ready to move on, we opened the next bag. This worked really well on helping get through some of the other General Authority speakers that one cannot predict.

Whew. If you made it through all of that then you're amazing or something. ;) Several of the bags I will re-use again and the ones that are now "empty" I will re-fill with new activities for the future. Who knows if at this time we'll have Lindy for conference but there will come a day in the future where we'll always have kids around for conference....so it's good for me to have some of the stuff already put together. :o)

And now...a few pictures of the activities. :) 




Whew. you made it! Catch you later friends! 

P.S. Allan and I enjoyed conference too...so many amazing talks! I'm excited to study them together. :o)

Wednesday, April 3, 2013

Married! And it feels SO GOOD!

So....I kind of disappeared for a few days there huh? ;) There's something about getting married that will do that to you...lol.

Anyways, we're back from our honeymoon and have plunged feet first back into the real world. It feels nice not to have to worry about so many things on a daily basis anymore. I love that I don't have to leave my sweet husband every night anymore and that "anything goes" these days. It is a GREAT feeling.

I want to do a full-on review of ALL of my vendors along with pictures and what not, but that might be a little slow in coming. For now I just want to say that my wedding day was so lovely and perfect. Our small ceremony was just wonderful and I pretty much cried through the whole thing. :) My family is amazing and we had great  fun partying it up after dinner. I have the best husband ever and I am so excited for all the adventures we get to enjoy for the rest of our lives. :o)

Don't worry, I'll be back with gusto...in the mean time enjoy this picture from our formal photo shoot. Ciao!


Thursday, March 7, 2013

this...

THIS is why I LOVE everything Google:

It just makes my heart so happy. :o)

Happy Birthday to me!!!

(and t-minus 3 weeks and counting until the wedding day! I can't believe it's coming SO FAST!!!)

Monday, March 4, 2013

24 Days and counting!!

This past weekend was a good one. Allan and I got so much done that I feel like my to-do list is in my control instead of me being controlled by my to-do list. ;)

I'm getting really excited to be married. It's nice to say "I'm getting married at the end of the month" instead of "next month," or "in two months" etc. We're down to 3.5 weeks. My wedding dress should be in the mail back to me by tomorrow and that makes me happy. I have my last bridal shower this weekend and I'm looking forward to spending time with my family and girlfriends! :o)

In other news my birthday is in 3 days!!! I almost forgot about my birthday seeing as how I have this other big event looming in the distance...but my birthday should be a good day. Allan is taking me out to dinner and Lindy will get to be there with us along with a few friends and my sister. :o) I just love birthdays and I'm glad that others haven't forgotten about it. (unlike me! ha!)

I'm feeling so good about things. I feel like everything I have left is crafty projects that are just fun to do! :o)

Anywho, that's all for now. Catch you laters peeps!


Thursday, February 21, 2013

5 Weeks...

5 Weeks. 35 Days. 840 hours. 50,400 minutes.

Now the question is how many sick days? I started not feeling well last night and I'm still currently under the weather. I have this little cold that's trying to stick. I canceled all my plans last night and cuddled up on my couch and tried to catch up on Downton Abbey. (just one more episode....it was not loading well last night. stupid thing....)

In other news my to-do list of things keeps seeming to grow instead of shrink...but at the same time it's coming along nicely. I think. :P I really don't know right now. I feel like there are a bazillion things for me to do for this wedding and with working full-time, trying to find time to spend with my sweetie plus the time taken for Lindy (which I love, don't get me wrong) I really don't know how everything is going to get done.

sigh.

I'm stressed.

I think it comes with the territory....but I'd rather not be stressed. No one LIKES being stressed do they? Cause if they do...they can have my stress. :P

Anywho. Here's to getting things done, staying healthy and enjoying the last few weeks of being a Miss before becoming a Mrs.!!


Thursday, February 14, 2013

Happy Valentine's Day!



Happy Day of Love y'all! :o) I definitely feel like the luckiest girl alive to get to marry that sexy man above in 42 days!. :o) He's going to be all mine and there's nothin' you kids can do about it!!!

Monday, February 11, 2013

getting married....and all that jazz

So, if we're friends in  real life you might have heard....I'm officially getting married on March 28th.

What I didn't tell the Facebook world (because I don't feel like I need to announce it there...) is the really big news that came with the decision of March 28th.

See, as I may or may not have mentioned, my sweetheart has been married before and since divorced (obviously). Now, in the LDS church divorcing your spouse does not instantly divorce you from your temple sealing. You have to get clearance (if you're a guy) or a cancellation (if you're a girl) of sealing and that is done through a long process through your local leaders (Bishop and Stake President) and then a packet is sent off to the First Presidency and you have to wait (patiently?) for a response.

We have been working on this process since the day we got engaged. It has been long and slow and without much news. However, we found out last week from our Stake President that due to certain circumstances that are not important for anyone but us to know, our clearance isn't going to come through until October.

October. That's EIGHT months away my friends. And when you've already been engaged for almost 3 months - another eight sounds horrendous. After much discussion (and really, we had discussed this possibility before this news) and with the strong recommendation from our Stake President, Allan and I have decided to be married civilly on March 28th and then we will be sealed one year later.

I am so at peace with this decision. While it was hard at first to accept this idea, we know that this is the best thing for us and our situation. Waiting until October would be extremely difficult and would more than likely cause more problems for us. I know it's not the "normal" thing to do when you're Mormon....living in Utah...but it is what is best for us.

My family has been super supportive and the friends that I have told are also all for it. We are going to still keep things small that day - while we want a party we are also wanting only those closest to us to celebrate our special day. And that's what it will be - special. And who knows....I might just get lucky and get two anniversary dates. ;)

For now, if I don't write on here as much in the next 45+ days....just remember that I haven't abandoned this here blog, but instead I am doing my best to avoid blowing up and planning a wedding that is taking place in 45 days. Cue freak out.....

until next time! ciao!